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Stop giving second chances to men who didn't deserve the first one!

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I had to learn the hard way and I'm sure many of you have experienced this as well. 

Stop giving these men second chances when they didn't even deserve the first one!

Sometimes it's best to see what is worth keeping around and also what doesn't serve a purpose in your life.

You may need to make this mistake a couple of times over and over to finally see it, embrace it, and eventually accept it.

When we allow people to mistreat us and disrespect us,

We only give them the power that we lack within ourselves.

They become in control of our emotions, decisions, and the direction and choices we make! 

Meanwhile, we are the ones who lose all self-respect and self-worth. 

They become a stronger force in our lives.

We only become weakened when it's said and done.

Once a person sees your weak spot they will abuse it.

They are not going to change because they are going to keep walking over you. 

The same choices they made before being “so sorry” will be the same ones they continue to make after you take them back for the 50th time.

The moment you are quick to accept somebody's half-ass apology will be the moment they see your weaknesses.

The first mistake has to be the last one! 

You can't keep allowing the same cycle of problems to enter your life.

If you see the same bullshit from a different man you need to nip it in the bud!

Save yourself the trouble and headache.

There's nothing wrong with being able to forgive people. But at the same time, you don't want to forgive somebody for the same thing over and over. 

Some shit is just heritable if his daddy wasn't shit then he may not be shit either if he doesn’t prevent himself from falling down the same path! 

This only applies if you are dealing with shit from him regularly!

People know how to play games and how to play with your heartstrings.

They know which buttons to push to get what they want out of you. If you cut all ties, you won't have to deal with the bullshit! Yeah, you may have wanted him but do you need him?

Do you need him out of all the other men you could benefit from having?



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