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Dear Gay Men: If A Man Tells You He Doesn’t Want A Relationship BELIEVE HIM!

How many times are we going to force something that doesn’t exist?

If you meet a guy, and he tells you UP FRONT he doesn’t want a relationship BELIEVE HIM!

LET IT GO.

MOVE ON.

FIND SOMEBODY ELSE.

DING. DING. DING!

You can’t be mad when he ups and plays the hell out of you!

When a man tells you he wants nothing to do with you,

Don’t think your freak game going to change his mind.

Don’t assume that TIME will adjust things.

Don’t even expect for your money or status to alter his way of thinking.

IT WILL NOT HAPPEN.

TODAY.

TOMORROW.

A YEAR FROM NOW!

I feel bad for a lot of you guys who can’t take rejection well.

It’s okay not to be able to freak your way into a man’s life for once.

It’s perfectly okay not to get your way with flashy ish and illusions.

It’s all right sis… You’ll survive and hopefully you won’t continue to think your good looks, BAWDY and a good head game… will win a man’s heart.

Sometimes men just don’t see it for us.

He may have his eyes elsewhere.

He might not even be willing to commit to just one person.

Everybody isn’t looking for a relationship just because you’re looking for love.

HARD WAY TO PUT IT, I KNOW!

But I have to keep it real all the way real as real as I can get about this topic!

Me reading these depressing arse social media statuses from guys claiming of “getting played!” Knowing damn well what the real tea is…

You didn’t get played because you placed yourself in that predicament.

You knew since DAY ONE that a relationship was NOT on his radar.

YOU KNEW THAT GUY WAS NOT TRYING TO COMMIT TO YOU OR ANYBODY ELSE.

Meanwhile,

You gave him your body, a piece of your mind and damn near your soul!

ENOUGH SAID.

Sometimes we need to not allow our low self esteem and insecurities to show because it’s not cute to beg for a man’s attention or love. It’s so undesirable to see a man damn near lose a piece of his confidence over another man who made his intentions known from the jump.

You thought if you gave him some wet wet and good good then maybe he’d make an exception for you.

Not only do you end up losing time, energy, walls and but you left feeling hopeless.

WELL CHILE, let this be the biggest lesson for you.

When a man shows you who is he, you better believe him.

When a man tells you what he’s about, you better believe him.

When a man makes it known from THE GATE, you better not only believe him but OVERSTAND HIM!

We can’t keep taking these L’s out here, gentlemen! There has to be a point when you stop falling for the BS and seeing things for what it is.

 

Do not set yourself up for failure!

Do not waste your time.

When you know better, you do better. 

LET THIS ARTICLE SINK IN! 

FELLAS, We almost in a NEW YEAR.

Something has to change with the way we engage and entertain each other.

 

This ish ain’t it, it’s just ain’t working out for many of you! 

 


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