D!ck Is Everywhere Chemistry Isn’t!

Calling all gay folk!!!! 

Queer people of color!

It doesn’t matter if you are a bottom, top, or confused ass verse

Bring yo ass in here!

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This is a love letter to all gays who got this thing we call dating and love fucked up! 

Signed sincerely,

Your good conscience.

Listen,

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We need to make something clear and I think I’ve addressed this many times before, but this time I want to clarify shit!

Getting dicked down does not and will not guarantee you love and good chemistry!

You can get the best dick from the most honorable type of men, but it will not sustain shit for your future.

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Stop being so damn dick hungry, bottoms…

You can’t be mad if you get the dick but also the block after. 

Stop thinking dick will be your hero because it won’t. 

It doesn’t matter what you do sexually.

 If you can’t mentally do it better it won’t save you!

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Tops! 

You think you’re in control and got the power but you don’t. 

Trust me, coming from a person who has been on both sides of the fence I know this oh too well.

We can’t allow our sexual desires to derail our mental satisfaction. 

Chemistry should not be last on your list when trying to find a man. 

If you focused on his dick or ass before his mental and spiritual connection then you got the game fucked up.

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You can’t be mad about the mistakes of the type of men you’ve found in the past. 

Just know, after reading this if you continue to make those same mistakes then the shit is your fault!

At this point, this post should wake some of you up! 

If your spirit shook 

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It’s shaking for a reason!

You know this is real tea so go ahead sip up!

I made it hot and didn’t add too much sugar or ice. 

No excuses fellas! 

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You either going to accept your wrongs or continue to make them right in your mind.

Come in and have a damn seat cause this is for some of you sitting way in the back.

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Stop allowing sex to control your every move and decision fellas! 

You only set yourself up for failure! 

You may win for a second but it won’t last long. 

If it does it’s not built off of the right foundation.

 

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Chemistry is the goal and should be the main focus for all of us.

I wanna connect with my man outside of the bedroom just as much as I do in bed.

If a man has to smoke weed, get high, drunk to have a mature conversation then something is wrong. 

If you can’t engage and interact on a deeper level outside of fucking or smoking then there’s a problem. 

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Sex can’t fix your relationship problems and a lot of you feel like it will.

BUT SADLY IT DON’T!

You think if you fuck your man then all the issues you both have together will go away. 

IT WON’T!

This my dear is only a temporary fix. 

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It makes things nice and glittery for a few hours or even a few days. 

You both feeling good and that’s the problem solver, right?

But then the issue resurfaced again and this time the issue is much bigger than it was before.

Sex can get people anything they want but sex can not heal broken wounds, fix major problems, or correct internal issues. 

Some of the battles you have need to be worked out through your own hard work and dedication.

Once again, if we focus on chemistry over sex and lust then we wouldn’t have these problems occurring later on down the road.

Let’s become greater than sex itself. 

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Let’s connect through chemistry and not thinking we can fuck our way into a man’s hearts and his life.

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Sex can only do but so much before it becomes too toxic and unfix-able. 

Don’t allow sex to consume your mind and relationship and think you can use and rely on it instead of chemistry or good communication.

I just addressed this topic from three different angles of looking at it. 

I made a full circle and now you guys see how sex can’t save you in any situation you’re in without a connection, chemistry, or real foundation to stand on. 

It may help or smooth things over but it doesn’t fix anything in the end.

DO THE ACTUAL WORK.

TAKE YOUR TIME.

BUILD A RELATIONSHIP.

DON’T BUILD ONE OFF OF ALL THE WRONG THINGS!



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