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How To Know When He Doesn’t Like YOU That He Only Likes The Bussy Or The D!ck

I’m going to be as blunt as possible. I know this may come off cold but I gotta be honest about the shit.

He didn’t like you, wasn’t going to ever like you and only used you for the dick or bussy.

Yeah, I said it!

It’s so obvious and apparent that sometimes it goes unnoticed by y’all. Shit, I’ve been in the same situation — until I had to step outside of it and see the truth.

It’s never easy to come to terms with being used for sex. A lot of gay men are skilled at this shit. It baffles me when people don’t know when somebody gaming them.

So I created a list for y’all with all the tell signs. Things that most of you probably have noticed but ignored or tried to overlook for other reasons.

He’s Only Available During Certain Hours Of The Day (Mostly At Night)

It’s one thing if he's working or in school, etc. If you find yourself dealing with a half-ass guy who only comes around for sex, you better run! It’s usually the easiest way to spot a guy who happens to be using you.

Most of you are so hypnotized by the dick that you don’t see it coming. Some of you have caught them in the act of cheating and being dishonest. It’s all about sex for him. Read in-between the lines.

The Only Conversation He Has Is Based Around Sex!

If you find the only most interesting topic of choice for him is sex then accept that shit. This is his way of letting you know, he’s not investing his time into anything more than that.

I’ve been in situations where I would try to get to know a guy, but it would always lead in a different direction.

You should know where his mind is by his conversation and if his actions only equal up to sex than you a plaything and not the real thing for him.

He Talks About NSA (No Strings Attached)

If he tells you NSA only then you need to accept that. Don’t sit up wasting your time with somebody who doesn’t value it.

You have to identify his purpose immediately or else you’ll just fall into his game. No, you can’t fuck him so good that he’ll love you.

You can’t butter him up and gain more than his sperm. When a person shows you who they are believe them. There’s no altering or changing his ways, mindset or mentality.

After Sex He’s Nowhere To Be Found!

Have you ever dated somebody and noticed them disappearing after sex? I mean it could be for a few days or even weeks. Then all of a sudden they pop back up just in time to hook up again?

Yes, this should be also a big red flag that he’s only involved with you for sex. When he gets what he wants he’s onto the next piece of ass or peen. More than likely he has a few guys in the rotation.

There’s No Emotions or Intimacy Involved!

Have you ever had sex with a person and felt nothing from it? I mean like just straight penetration but no actual romantic connection or even attempt to be intimate? This is how things are for these type of men.

They will have sex with you on a regular basis with no affection or emotions attached. It’s basically meaningless and it serves no real purpose. Most guys like to fuck just for the body count and ego.

It’s Always One-Sided!!!

This is a sad scenario but very true in many cases. You’re engaging in sex and after they get their climax you’re left without one. If a guy is into you he's going to put the same amount of time into pleasing you also. If it took you over 20 minutes to get that motherfucka to blow. You better get your end of the bargain. If it’s only one-sided then you better make sure you see the facts. He’s not into you and he’s definitely using you for sex.

On the flip side, he may be the most romantic person in bed. He may be the one to help you climax before he gets closed to it. After the sex, he could go right back to being distant and disinterested. If a guy only wants to hang out with you for sex then you need to value yourself more. Your body should be treated like gold, not dirt.

You have to have standards and allowing somebody to use your body is sad. I will say we’ve all been used before by somebody. I don’t care how much game you think you got. You have been played before, so we all can take this L!