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Dear Gays | Ex Flings, Ex Lovers, Ex Friends With Benefits Should No Longer Be In The Picture!

No lies told here!!!

I often like to say “old flings can bring new problems.”

When I'm in the picture there should be nobody else involved or in the same damn frame! There's only room for one head TOP (former bottom) in charge! 😂

I'm not sharing any ass with anybody. Yes, I am selfish and I'm greedy over mine.

A lot of people like to move onto new situations while still entertaining "old thangs!" See, we can't go back if we trying to move forward. We can't mess with what used to be if we planning on creating something new for the future.

This is a major issue for me when I'm actually dating cause these guys will date you while still holding onto exes and ex hoes. I can't count how many new situations got ruined because of old situations popping up in current situations for me.

I'm very vocal and I speak my mind and quick to X yo ass out the picture. Yes, it's a bad habit of mine. I have zero tolerance for bullshit and the slightest is enough to get you curved.

These guys will even introduce you to these individuals as if they want y'all to befriend each other.

The lack of respect that some of these men have for people is crazy! But they're willing to risk it all and most of them do eventually fuck up a good thing.

All we ask for you to do is be faithful, fuck good, cook occasionally and be loyal!

Nobody is asking for too much at all.

The smallest amount of faithfulness seems to be the hardest thing to receive from these guys nowadays.

Ain't nobody got time to be brother-husbands.

We not about to be on some share-your-man crew.

I'm not taking one for the team!

What's mine belongs to me. I don't have any time for you to be digging your crusty ass hands inside my candy jar! I'm not sharing my man, period!

The fact that anybody can talk to somebody while still on speaking terms with old hoes and flings shows me they have no loyalty at all. People out here investing time, energy and their space for people who rather have one of many options.

I'm not one of many, I am either the one and only or nothing at all. I won't be one of many for anybody!

If a person doesn't value you or our time then guess what I'm doing...

They do not deserve another second down to the minute!

I refuse to allow the joke to be on me. This not going to be some Jerry Springer show segment where you announce that you been fucking around behind my back. I'm not going for it.

You can't have your cake and eat it too!

The moment you put that ass on the block list will be the best decision you have ever made. Do not allow anybody to make you feel less than what you are. Ain't no dick or ass good enough in this world to be walking around being one of many pieces of a man's puzzle.

If you not the only choice for him then he minds as well be a hoe by his damn self on his own time and dime. I wouldn't invest any more time into him after finding out he's still involved with others.