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Categorize The Men In Your Life!

Last night I was having a random discussion with some random guy on Jack'd. He was telling me how the guys that wanted to date him; he slept with and they ghosted him. Meanwhile, he was chasing after the fuck boys who wasn’t trying to offer him anything serious and they only wasted his time.

This is not my first time having this type of conversation with guys, in fact, I recall having this very conversation a few months back with another guy about his struggle with dating. So I want to share my two cents and hopefully, this can help some of you as well.

It worked for me MANY MOONS AGO!

Categorize the men in your life.

Yes, separate the fuck boys from the gents and the gents from the ghosters. Know who to sleep with and who to build an actual connection with outside of the bedroom.

DO NOT MIX THE TWO!

I think the issue a lot of gay men have with dating is the fact that we get caught up in the feeling good part of dating to the point of us losing focus on the main important stages of dating.

For me, getting to know somebody is more important than me exploring their naked body. I have fucked this up way too many times in the past until; I realized the error of my ways.

Don’t give your body away before you at least build a connection.

If the only thing he can offer you is sex, then it’s a limited situation. You can’t expect for a man to not take advantage of his opportunity if you are quick to throw that dick and bussy out for free for any and everybody who's up for grabs.

Some guys are only worth a good fuck — while other guys got the potential to be a love interest in your life.

Categorize these men and know who to fuck vs who to take your time to get to know. This will save you a lot of time gents, and fellas, and less aggravation.